Marriages are made in Heaven. Yet, we humans are unable to keep our promises. The trend of divorce rate in the US is alarming. We must try to save a broken marriage and make the family happy and complete. After all, a broken marriage is a sign of a weak relationship, failed trust between the partners, and most important the failed value of a family.
Nobody wants to divorce, we all love our family. When we fail to respect and trust our partners, then the issue of broken families arises. In the US, the rate of divorce is alarming.
For celebrities and business tycoons, it has become a trend to divorce their partners. But what about the children of a broken marriage? Have anyone noticed the pain and psychological agony of kids whose parents are separated due to broken marriage?
Kids from broken families suffer the most in our society. The trauma of separation of either the mom or dad from the little kids due to broken marriage can not be healed. Such kids faced a lot of hardships and are mostly pessimists in future life.
Treat as a soulmate to save from broken marriage
In the beginning, we said that marriages are made in Heaven. When you start treating your wife or husband as a soulmate, no one can break your relationship. A weak relationship is the main cause of family problems in most of us.
You have promised in front of the Lord and your families that you will keep your wife always happy. However, after a year or so, you forget those promises and begin to taunt your beloved soulmate.
It seems love has ended or you are fed up with your wife. Don’t do this. Always love your soulmate and see the beauty of marriage life.
Be loyal to each other to save from broken marriage
Loyalty can not be bought from the market. It has to be created from the heart. The husband must care for the wife. Similarly, the wife must also help her husband. There must be transparency in the relationship. Loyal couples will never hurt each other.
Keep friends who support you
We all have friends. Some from the neighbors, some from the workplace, and some from social networking sites. Stay away from those friends who never respect your wife or husband. They are the ones who will poison you. Most broken marriages in the United States have arisen due to friends. Choose your friends wisely who will listen to your family problems and come out to sort out the differences between the couples.
Listen to each other to save from broken marriage
If you do not listen to your wife, she will bury her problems within. This will ultimately erupt as a volcano in due course. The best way to clear the air of suspicion or doubt is to have the patience to listen and solve the issue together.
Help each other to run the family
Running a family is very complex now. With inflation in the States, the cost of living is very high. At this moment, both the husband and wife must work together to run the family. When there is sufficient income, the house becomes a home.
A study has revealed that finances are one factor for broken marriages in the United States.
If the wife wishes to work at home, let’s support her with home-based job opportunities which will generate a few dollars. It is the responsibility of both husband and wife to look after the kids.
Let’s forget about the idea of divorcing the poor mom or dad and remarrying a rich woman or man. You will enjoy your lives but the future of your kids is in dark.
Don’t inspire by the broken marriages of Celebrities and Business tycoons
It is not an issue to divorce repeatedly and remarry again and again for the Hollywood celebs and Business tycoons who have billions of fortune with them. These trends of divorce and broken marriage should not enter your mind.
You should not live in the fancy world of the limelight. You are a commoner, even though you have lots of wealth. Your family is the wealth.
Enjoy each moment of your life with the family.
Marriages are not contracted, but commitment
These days, marriages are considered a contract. It has been commercialized. This is totally wrong. Marriages are not contracted but a commitment between two persons who help each other and stay together.
You cannot leave your wife if you find a new woman. When you leave her, you are losing your soulmate whom you love and dream of sharing your joy and sorrows till the end.
It is unfortunate that almost 50 percent of all marriages in the United States end up in divorce. We must respect the relationship, care for our kids and always try to live a normal life.
What is the use of earning lots of money when you have a broken marriage?
Naorem Mohen is full time Blogger and helps parent improve their parenting skills, resulting in better relationships with their children. He also provides guidance to individuals and couples to enhance their relationships and communication. Naorem supports people in need to help them in their personal growth, helping them set and achieve meaningful goals.